Sabtu, 31 Agustus 2013

phase in our life

Finally,
I came to realize that moving on is all about letting go of the past.

People in our life, come and go. We gotta move to another phase to let us walk from our comfort-zone. Comfort-zone is not always meaning a happy state. You can be unhappy and hurt, but it's way too comfort to leave. Some times we are afraid to walk. It is not we're afraid that future that we predict will bring more happy endings, but it's the past that holds us. The memory of the past, the happiness we felt, the unforgettable moment, and the person--that time, they're haunting us. Our hope to feel them again in the future, the fear of loosing a precious memory if we let them go, a comfort feeling that fixated us in one particular point.

You love someone. It can be anyone, you love. It is either make you the happiest person alive or the most suffer person. But together, separation, and letting go are likely involved in the process of loving someone. I have had many times of letting go off my someone(s).
If it was a test I should have had a perfect score, but it's someone. Or more. It belongs thousand memories within, thousand smiles with them, countless pictures.

Not easy. But yeah, maybe we're not afraid of loosing them. But, more than that we're afraid to loose the memory, the happiness, the moment we shared. But what will you do if the person once we met in the past no longer exist now. We have no choice. God will arrange us a happiness that fits us. The one being worked in mysterious way, but you can not see it as long as you hold your past. Still wondering what ifs.

So, I came to realize that moving on is all about letting go of the past.

May God bless you, and happiness always be with you.